Divorce & Relationship Coaching in Birmingham & Sutton Coldfield

At Love Life Coaching & Events, we specialise in divorce and relationship breakdown coaching that helps you process the complex emotions of relationship loss whilst building a stronger, more fulfilling future. Based in Sutton Coldfield and serving Birmingham and surrounding areas, we understand that every relationship ending is unique and offer personalised support tailored to your specific circumstances.

This complex grief often goes unrecognised by others who may expect you to “move on” quickly, leaving you feeling isolated and misunderstood.

Our divorce and relationship coaching supports:

• Divorce and legal separation
• End of long-term partnerships or marriages
• Breakup of cohabiting relationships
• Separation involving children and co-parenting
• Rebuilding after narcissistic or abusive relationships
• Processing betrayal, infidelity, or broken trust
• Moving forward after multiple relationship failures

Mutual Decision to Separate Even when divorce is mutually agreed, the practical and emotional challenges can be overwhelming. We help you process the sadness of lost dreams whilst building excitement for your new chapter.

Unexpected Abandonment When your partner leaves without warning, the shock and rejection can be devastating. We provide support for processing trauma whilst rebuilding your self-worth and confidence.

High-Conflict Separation Contentious divorces involving legal battles, custody disputes, or financial disagreements create ongoing stress. We help you protect your emotional wellbeing whilst navigating these challenges.

Leaving Toxic Relationships Ending relationships involving emotional abuse, manipulation, or control requires specialised support. We help you heal from trauma whilst building healthy boundaries for future relationships.

Immediate Support and Stabilisation

• Learn practical techniques to manage overwhelming emotions and grief waves
• Develop healthy routines that support your physical and mental wellbeing
• Build resilience to handle triggers, difficult conversations, and legal proceedings
• Create safe spaces to process complex feelings without judgment
• Understand that your emotional response to relationship loss is normal and valid

Long-term Healing and Personal Growth

• Transform your experience from devastating loss to an opportunity for growth
• Rebuild confidence, self-worth, and personal identity outside the relationship
• Develop new meaning and purpose as an independent person
• Learn to co-parent effectively whilst maintaining your own wellbeing
• Create healthy boundaries and relationship patterns for the future

Our Comprehensive Approach

Our relationship coaching addresses both the emotional and practical aspects of relationship breakdown. Lucy Cole has personally navigated a painful divorce, including costly legal proceedings and rebuilding life as a single person. This lived experience, combined with professional training, provides authentic understanding of your journey.

Personal Experience with Relationship Breakdown

Lucy’s personal journey through divorce, including the breakdown of her marriage, leaving the marital home, costly court cases, and financial difficulties, provides a genuine understanding that goes beyond professional training. She knows the overwhelming nature of relationship loss and the practical challenges of rebuilding life afterwards.

Professional Expertise in Relationship Recovery

• Fully qualified Trainer, Master NLP & Hypnotherapist
• Certified in Emotional Health Coaching and Personal Development
• Trauma Informed Coach with specialised training in relationship recovery
• Timeline Therapy practitioner

Convenient Birmingham Area Location

Our clinic is located at The Vesey, Private Hospital, Unit 3, Reddicap Trading Estate, Sutton Coldfield, B75 7BH, easily accessible from Birmingham city centre and throughout the West Midlands. We also offer online sessions for those who prefer privacy or remote support.

Holistic Support for Life Rebuilding

We don’t just focus on processing emotions – we help you rebuild every aspect of your life including confidence, finances, parenting, social connections, and future relationship goals.

• Birmingham city centre and all surrounding suburbs
• Sutton Coldfield, Four Oaks, and Boldmere
• Solihull, Erdington, and Moseley
• West Bromwich, Walsall, and Wolverhampton
• Throughout the West Midlands region

Clinic Location: The Vesey, Private Hospital, Unit 3, Reddicap Trading Estate, Sutton Coldfield, B75 7BH

Excellent transport links: Birmingham New Street (20 minutes), M54/M6 motorway access, private parking available

We understand that during a relationship breakdown, maintaining privacy and convenience is important. Our clinic offers a discreet, professional environment, and we’re happy to provide online sessions when face-to-face meetings aren’t practical.

Relationship Counselling

Typically focuses on exploring past relationship patterns and understanding what went wrong. Whilst valuable for insight, it can sometimes keep you focused on the past rather than building your future.

Divorce Coaching 

Takes a future-focused approach, helping you process your emotions whilst developing practical strategies for rebuilding your life. We honour your pain whilst empowering you to create a stronger, more fulfilling future.

Our coaching approach doesn’t minimise your loss or rush your healing process. Instead, we provide tools and techniques that help you navigate relationship grief more effectively whilst gradually building excitement for your new life.

Setting New Boundaries

Learn to recognise your needs and communicate them effectively. We help you understand healthy relationship dynamics and develop boundaries that protect your wellbeing whilst allowing for meaningful connections.

Stopping People-Pleasing Patterns

Many people lose themselves in relationships by constantly prioritising others’ needs. We help you rediscover your authentic self and develop balanced relationship patterns.

Recognising Red Flags

Whether you’ve experienced manipulation, control, or betrayal, we help you identify warning signs in future relationships whilst avoiding paranoia that prevents healthy connections.

Understanding Attachment Styles

Learn how your attachment style affects your relationships and develop security that allows for healthy intimacy without losing your independence.

Divorce and relationship breakdown can feel like the end of your story, but it’s actually the beginning of a new chapter. With the right support, you can transform this painful experience into an opportunity for tremendous personal growth and create a life that’s more authentic and fulfilling than before.

Book your free 30-minute consultation today:

Call: 0121 387 3727

Email: lucy@lovelifecoaching-events.co.uk

Visit: The Vesey, Private Hospital, Unit 3, Reddicap Trading Estate, Sutton Coldfield, B75 7BH

During your consultation, we’ll discuss your specific situation, explain how divorce coaching can help, and create a plan for rebuilding your life. There’s no pressure – just compassionate understanding and practical guidance to help you move forward with confidence.

Your breakdown can become your breakthrough. Let us help you write your new chapter.

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Serving Birmingham and the West Midlands with expert divorce and relationship recovery support.